Dale V. Atkins is the author of the new children's picture book The Turquoise Butterfly. Her other books include The Kindness Advantage. She is a psychologist and educator, and she lives in Connecticut.
Q: What inspired you to write The Turquoise Butterfly, and
how did you create your character Victoria?
A: I was inspired by my late mother, Sylvia Atkins--a caring
and devoted mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, who created deep, loving
bonds with each of her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She also
cherished friendships across generations enriching the lives of those around
her just as they enriched hers.
Since I became a grandmother 21 years ago, I discovered
countless ways to connect with each of my six grandchildren by tuning into
their personalities, interests, and the "season of life" they were
navigating.
A couple of them were a bit anxious about participating in
activities. Whenever any of my grandchildren hesitated to try something new, I
felt called to understand their worries and to help them through gently, in
ways that honored who they were rather than what I might have expected.
Victoria is a composite of a few children, one of whom is my
granddaughter. One of my granddaughters used to feel distressed when separated
from her parents. Over time, however, she and I created a tradition of carving
out one special week each year for our own adventure. We would climb into the
car and set off on the road—but only after planning every detail together. And
we would frequently be in touch with her parents.
Like Victoria, she liked to know what to expect; without a
clear plan, she would get "butterflies in her tummy." So, we
would sit side by side, choosing hotels, looking at restaurants, and deciding
which parks we would explore. Knowing the plan helped her feel grounded and far
less anxious, and it became a comforting ritual that connected us more
deeply.
Over time the precision of our planning began to loosen, and
we found ourselves able to include a bit more spontaneity in our adventures. As
she grew more comfortable, our itineraries made space for surprises—a
new trail to wander, an unexpected ice cream stop, a detour to explore
something intriguing along the way.
This gentle shift not only broadened our experiences but
also gave her a growing sense of confidence and adaptability and freedom,
allowing her to trust herself and the world a little more with each passing
year.
Q: How would you describe the relationship between Victoria
and her grandmother?
A: Their relationship is loving, close, and deeply
respectful. Even though Grandma Sylvia is naturally adventurous and eager to
take risks, she gently encourages Victoria to move at her own pace in her own
time. She opens the door to the wider world without pushing it open too
quickly.
And when plans change or fears arise, Grandma Sylvia meets
Victoria's worries with compassion and empathy, guiding her through challenging
moments despite her granddaughter’s hesitation or fear.
Grandma Sylvia becomes a role model for problem-solving; a
steady presence who knows when to distract, when to comfort, and when simply to
stand beside Victoria as a safe harbor in the storms of the anxiety.
With patience and tenderness, she teaches Victoria ways to
calm herself, to face difficulties with increasing confidence, and to view
her feelings as part of the journey toward resilience.
They are each their authentic selves who, at different
times, need encouragement and support from the other. Together, they are each
reliable, vulnerable, and strong in different ways. They both understand the
quiet importance of truly "being there" for oneself and for another,
as life's unexpected moments unfold.

Q: What do you think Amelina Jones’s illustrations add to
the book?
A: Amelina Jones's vibrant, soulful illustrations invite the
reader into the world of Grandma Sylvia and her granddaughter, Victoria. Her
art brings their relationship to life, capturing the tenderness, trust, and joy
they share.
Through luminous color, expressive body language and
facial expressions, thoughtful clothing details, and the comforting, sometimes
unexpected presence of nature, we feel the depth of their emotional connection.
The natural world around them seems to burst with life and
energy—flowers in bloom, trees stretching toward the sky, butterflies in
motion—all reflecting the beauty and vitality of their bond.
The artwork wraps the reader in warmth, helping us
experience the love, courage, and growth that define their journey
together.
Q: What do you hope readers take away from the story?
A: At its heart, this story invites readers to witness the
beautiful unique bond between a bold grandmother and her granddaughter who
often feels anxious as they spend one meaningful week together each year.
Through their shared adventures, both planned and
spontaneous, they learn from each other, and discover courage, patience, and
the quiet strength that love makes possible.
The butterfly symbolizes the transformation that occurs
within each of the characters and their relationship as well as their forever
eternal connection.
I hope readers come away with a deeper appreciation for the
enduring nature of love, the gentle signs that keep us connected even across
time, and the lifelong lessons that pass between generations.
This book celebrates the tender, transformative bond between
a grandparent and a grandchild – a bond that shapes us, steadies us, and stays
with us always.
Q: What are you working on now?
A: I am finishing another children’s book, Dear Deer. It is
a love letter to nature and forest animals, capturing the curiosity and
excitement of two children as they explore, discover, and learn about the
wonders of the wild.
As the children embark on their adventure, they come across
a baby deer in distress, prompting them to find a way to help without causing
any harm. Through their efforts, the children learn valuable lessons about
compassion, patience, empathy, tuning into their senses, and the delicate
balance of nature.
Q: Anything else we should know?
A: My deep belief is that there is great power in
intergenerational connection that can help us develop and grow in ways
we did not know possible.
--Interview with Deborah Kalb