Q: As someone who worked in a variety of music-related jobs
(DJ, musician, writer, concert promoter), was there one that you preferred over
the others? Why or why not?
A: I've loved all the hats I've worn, but if I have to pick one,
I'd go with disc jockey/talk show host during the underground, freeform radio
days of the 1970s.
Being on the radio had been my dream since I started listening to East
Coast AM stations on my transistor radio at the dawning of the rock 'n' roll
era. I announced at my eighth birthday party that I was going to be a disc
jockey when I grew up. Fast forward 15 years to 1971 and that prediction came
true.
There was something so liberating about picking and playing
my own favorite music music every morning. Having that responsibility
forced me to broaden my horizons and sample music I'd never heard of before.
And my radio show opened the floodgates for all my future
gigs. Newspaper and magazine editors hired me to write for their publications
because they liked what I said on the air.
Once I became a music critic, musicians who didn't agree
with my reviews challenged me by saying "I'd like to see what you could do
onstage!" I took that to heart, formed a band and played live for four
years.
Then, a former fan of my radio show called me out of the
blue and offered me a job producing concerts in California. I switched careers
on a dime, moved to San Diego, and presented 2,000 concerts over the next 23
years. My little radio show opened all those doors.
Q: You write that your favorite show of all the ones that
you produced was a Roy Orbison concert in 1987. What made that event
particularly noteworthy? On the other hand, you mention various performers who
were extremely difficult to work with. Is there one concert that you would
describe as perhaps your least favorite?
A: When I started presenting live concerts in 1984, I was
fortunate to work with a lot of my heroes. Most of them were wonderful. A few
were assholes.
Roy Orbison's career had been in decline for a long time
when I booked him in 1987. Even his agent thought I was making a mistake by
booking him. I'm glad I didn't listen to her. I would never have passed up a
chance to meet Roy Orbison and hear him sing. So I rolled the dice and made an
offer for him to do two shows at Humphrey's, the outdoor venue I managed in San
Diego.
A few months before the concerts, Roy formed the Traveling
Wilburys supergroup with Bob Dylan, George Harrison, Tom Petty and Jeff Lynne. His
career resurgence was spectacular and his two San Diego shows sold out.
He was as kind and modest as a human being as he was
transcendent as a singer. I sat with my jaw on the ground watching him hit
perfect crescendos during "Crying," "Only the Lonely,"
"Running Scared," "In Dreams" and "It's Over,"
not to mention the majestic "Oh, Pretty Woman." He got 10 standing
ovations during each performance and I cried crocodile tears of joy.
My least favorite was probably Chuck Berry. I was repeatedly
warned not to work with him but I ignored all that good advice. You can read
about it in detail in Off My Rocker, but the capsule summary is that he tried
extorting money from me five minutes before his show began . . . and he did it
with a smile. I was being held hostage and certainly honed my negotiating
skills that night.
The show went on, he sang and played horribly out of tune,
and the crowd loved every minute of it. He had the nerve to invite me to have
Chinese food with him after the show. You'll have to read the book to see
if egg rolls were part of my denouement.
Q: In your book, you discuss all the changes in the radio
business over the decades that you worked in it. What do you see for radio in
the years ahead, and are there any shows or personalities that you like and listen
to at this point?
A: I was on the radio on and off from 1971 to 2007. When
commercial radio started tightening its playlists and lost its imagination in
the late '70s, I cofounded a public station (KGNU-FM, Boulder, CO) and that was
a great alternative for awhile.
When I switched careers and moved to San Diego in 1983, I
figured my radio days were behind me. But I hooked up with a visionary program
director named Bob O'Connor in 1993 and created a freeform specialty show
called "Music Without Boundaries," that incorporated rock, R & B,
blues, jazz, folk, oldies . . . an unheard of palette for commercial radio.
That show ran for 14 years on five different San Diego
stations, but the freedom of musical choice that I continued to have was a
complete anomaly in the cold, corporate world of consolidation that has
destroyed FM radio.
Satellite and internet hold the only hope for creative radio
in the years ahead. I listen to Sirius XM satellite radio, mostly to Little
Steven's Underground Garage or The Loft for music and Howard Stern for talk.
Q: If you were going to put together a playlist of the top
songs to accompany your memoir, what would that list include?
A: Wow, Deborah, how much space are you going to give me :-)
? A playlist of the music I love would go on for 150 pages, but
here's a random list of the first songs that come into my head. Of course, my
playlist would change every day until infinity with no repetition whatsoever.
Otis Redding "Try a Little Tenderness"
Spirit "Dream
Within a Dream"
Johnny Clegg & Savuka "Asimbonanga"
Love "You
Set the Scene"
Etta James "Tell
Mama"
The Byrds "Lay
Down Your Weary Tune"
Sandy Denny "Solo"
Wes "Awa
Awa"
Dawes "A
Little Bit of Everything"
Ange Takats "Minnesota"
Graham Parker & the Rumour "Fool's Gold"
Wilson Pickett "I'm
a Midnight Mover"
Eric Andersen "Blue
River"
The Beatles "In
My Life"
The Jarmels "A
Little Bit of Soap"
Miles Davis "Concierto
de Aranjuez"
Bob Dylan & Johnny Cash "Girl from the North Country"
The Strawbs "The
Flower and the Young Man"
Gene Pitney "I'm
Gonna Be Strong"
The Heptones "Book of Rules"
Catie Curtis "Radical"
John Prine "Hello in There"
Okay, okay, please stop me!
Q: What are you working on now?
A: Answering your questions. You set me up for that one!
Q: Anything else we should know?
A: I was the oldest child in a traditional, Jewish New
Jersey family. My parents hoped I'd become a corporate lawyer, pediatrician, or
a stockbroker.
I loved them unconditionally but they were horrified when I
relentlessly followed the music for the rest of my life. They relaxed only when
I started making a good living as a concert promoter.
As my mother lay dying in 2005, her last lucid words to me
were "So when are you going to write a book?" She slipped into a coma
that night and died three days later.
I started writing Off My Rocker shortly thereafter, kind of
fulfilling her final wish. This is a memoir about the joy and pain of a life
devoted to music as well as a love story about my wife of 42 years and our family.
It's the hardest thing I've ever attempted as well as the
most fulfilling. I became a stronger, more honest person telling this story. There
are a lot of cringeworthy moments along the way reflecting some bad
choices I made. I've also been told there are dozens of
laugh-out-loud moments.
--Interview with Deborah Kalb